Dating scene... or dating scream?

Lately I've been trying to step back into the realm of the daters... casually or not.  And it seems that besides my own inhibitions, each and every guy I talk to/go out with/hang out with proves to be untrustworthy... most show their true colors.  They go behind your back, they do things that do not condone the idea of wanting a real girlfriend... and in the end, all they really do is kill any chance of ever being with you.  This "dating scene" has changed a lot since the last time I was in it.


All I ask is that they be honest with me.  Is it that hard to do?  If you're talking to 5 girls at the same time, tell me.  (Not saying that it's going to make me want to be one of those 5 anymore, but it would be nice if you were honest).  If you don't really want a "relationship" persay, tell me.  If you're not over your ex yet and you two keep going back and forth, tell me.  If you don't understand why I would like to take things slowly, tell me -- don't just go find some other girl, stop talking to me all together without reason, and then end up in a relationship with her 2 days later.  That is just... childish and immature.  Especially when all I asked of you was to be honest.  Like I said in the beginning, you pretty much killed your chances with me, present or future. Ugghhhh. Boys! (Yes, I said "boys"... nothing ya'll do constitutes being a "man".)


Sometimes I wonder if I would be better off single until I graduate from graduate school in like 3 years.  It may be lonely... but it sure as heck beats being lied to constantly.